Tag: relationships
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Learning to Set Boundaries (and Actually Keep Them)
Setting boundaries can feel impossible—especially when the people you expect to respect them don’t. I’ve struggled with feeling unheard, guilty, and even “wrong” for speaking up. But I’m learning that boundaries are acts of self-respect, not selfishness. Here’s what I’ve discovered about setting limits, keeping them, and creating stronger relationships in the process.
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Protecting Space to Recharge: Why Taking Time for Yourself Matters More Than Ever
Grief, responsibility, and productivity can overwhelm. Here’s how carving out time through fishing and photography helped me recharge and stay strong.
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From Silence to Strength: My Journey
I work at a small café, tending bar, serving food, and greeting the familiar faces of our regulars. Most days, it’s a decent job — I get to connect with people, make a few smiles happen, and earn a living in a space that feels almost like a second home. But there’s always a shadow…
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Embracing “This AND That” in Relationships: The Power of Effective Communication – Communication is Key
As a server and bartender, there’s been many conversations I’ve overheard throughout my career. Some are pleasantry’s, while others are profound and thought-provoking. Recently, I had an encounter that fell into the latter category. Three women, a mother, and her two daughters, sat at my bar with a baby in a carrier. Their conversation centered…
In Need of Nature 